How often should you ejaculate?

How Often Should Tantric Men Ejaculate?

Once a man has started to practice Tantric semen retention with proper guidance and methods, the process of separating orgasm from ejaculation usually takes about 4-8 weeks, depending on his age and previous ejaculation frequency.

Once he has successfully separated those to functions in the nervous system he is well on his way to becoming multi orgasmic and now has choice over how often and when he wants to ejaculate.

So how often should a Tantric male ejaculate?

We generally recommend a frequency of once every 6 weeks. This is based on the Tibetan medical teaching regarding semen essence and blood. It is said that to takes 10 drops of food to make 1 drop of blood. It takes entire cup of blood to make one drop of semen.

Because of this it is recommended that a man ejaculate no more often than he would donate blood.

(Usually one must wait 6-8 weeks between whole blood donations)

That being said, the ideal frequency of male ejaculation depends on soooo many different factors, that it’s hard to set a hard and fast rule.

Once a man has broken his addiction to ejaculation it’s important for him to attune to his own body and determine the best ejaculation frequency for himself.

Here are some things to consider when deciding when and how often to ejaculate.

#1- Your age

#2- Your health

#3- The season or climate

#4- Your Tantra practice


Learn More about Male Ejaculation and Semen Retention Methods HERE!


I go into detail on the why’s of each of these point in the video below.

Please let me know what you think (and/or if you have any questions) in the comment section below 🙂

  • Kevin kerley
    Posted at 15:19h, 15 March Reply

    What would be the best resource for for learning to be multi orgasmic if you don’t have the time to go somewhere to learn.

    • Devi Ward Erickson
      Posted at 15:53h, 15 March Reply

      Great question. Best to learn from someone who has successfully achieved that goal, or someone who has successfully taught others to achieve that goal. We offer personal coaching sessions via Skype so that you can learn these techniques in the comfort and privacy of your won home. Take a look at our personal coaching sessions here-

  • Kevin kerley
    Posted at 15:21h, 15 March Reply

    What would be the best resource for learning to be multi orgasmic.

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